"Yes, I know and I pushed him away, now I won't see him again."
"You don't know that for sure. Give him a chance to calm down, think things through and wait for him to contact you again. Don't try to contact him, men seem to think they done no wrong and wait for the woman to contact them. In the meantime they will continue to do what they don't seem is wrong and when the woman beg them to come back they have you under their spell."
"Yeah, I agree with you there and perhaps that was the problem before. I was the one to initiat forgiveness. I was the one who always got hurt but always thought I hurt the man because he didn't respond. I always thought that they were always too upset to contact me."
"No, my dear. They weren't upset. They were trying to make you beg while they were off to no good. Then when they were contacted they act as if they are too upset and can't do it anymore. It's a game. If they love you and want your forgiveness they would contact you first, if it was their fault in the first place."
"My god Lynn, why are you working where you are working and not working in phycology?"