SEX - Avoided Subjects Discussed in Plain English - Page 12/41

During the first years of child life all those laws of practical

hygiene which make for good health should be carefully observed. Every

organ of the body should be carefully protected, even at this early

age. The genital organs, especially, should not be rubbed or handled

under any pretext, beyond what is absolutely necessary for

cleanliness. The organs of generation, which we are apt to treat as

nonexistent in children, just because they are children, claim just as

much watchful care as any others.

SEX PRECAUTIONS IN INFANCY

Even in infancy, the diaper should fit easily about the organs which

it covers, so as not to give rise to undue friction or heating of the

parts. And for the same reason it should always be changed immediately

after urination or a movement of the bowels. No material which

prevents the escape of perspiration, urine or fecal matter should be

employed for a diaper. The use of a chair-commode as early as the end

of the first year is highly to be commended, as being more comfortable

for the sex organs and healthier for the child. It favors, in

particular, a more perfect development of limbs and hip joints.

EARLY SEX IMPRESSIONS

Sex impressions and reactions are apt to develop at an early age,

especially in the case of boys. If the child's physical health is

normal, however, they should not affect his mind or body. The growing

boy should be encouraged to take his sex questions and sex problems to

his parents (in his case preferably the father) for explanation. Thus

they may be made clear to him naturally and logically. He should not

be told what he soon discovers is not true: that babies are "dug up

with a silver spade," or make their appearances in the family thanks

to the kind offices of storks or angels. Instead, by analogy with the

reproductive processes of all nature, the true facts of sex may be

explained to him in a soothing and normal way.

EVIL COMMUNICATIONS

Too often, the growing boy receives his first lessons regarding sex

from ignorant and vicious associates. Curiosity is one of the greatest